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With this group of StarTypes, the blue cards, we have a combination of “The Lover” and the “Loved One” in a single StarType. We could say that they are capable of loving themselves, and that is so true. They really are self-sufficient and often somewhat independent of relationships in general from time to time. This is not to say they do not have or enjoy relationships, for they most certainly do. However, they are not as dependent on relations as, let’s say, the red and green types. They can take relations and they can also be quite content just being out on their own.

Perhaps because they contain within themselves all the necessary elements of a basic relationship, the lover and the loved one, this StarType can play either role with an external partner, giving care and loved to a red StarType and receiving care and attention from the green types. In this way, they are ambidextrous, so to speak, having it both ways or having none.

Perhaps best of all, they have the vision and foresight of the green StarTypes and the charisma and fun-loving nature of the red StarTypes. As mentioned, depending on their partner, they can play either role. They can see what to do and also how do it, and all this without any outside help, thus the term “independent,” which indeed they are.