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StarType #1, T-Square

Symbolic Image: Literally, the life of the party. A person at the center of the group, with everyone looking at and enjoying this ‘special’ one in the center.

Concept

This StarType likes attention and probably demands (and usually gets) lots of it. Whatever is going on, they tend to gravitate to the center of any group, where the action is at – the life of the party. This is because at heart they are warm and charismatic, most definitely a touchy-feeling sort of person. People like them and like to be around them. This StarType is probably in-demand for dinner dates and parties. Why? Because they are fun!

Sometimes this StarType feels like they have to protect their privacy and does not like being hemmed in and pinned down by claustrophobic situations.

Relationships

This StarType is used to being the center of attention, and in most relationships they tends to take on the role of the loved one, allowing (and preferring) to let others look after them, even dote on them. This is not arrogance, but quite natural.

Keywords

The center of attention, life of the party. The beloved. The Loved One. Charismatic. Center of Attention. Intuitive. Touchy Feely.

Suggestions

This StarType, an example of the T-Square type, has excellent intuition, good hunches, and is able to feel things out on a practical level. Because they are so ‘in touch’ and involved (deep in there), they sometimes have trouble getting the big picture, and can’t see the forest because of the trees. This StarType can benefit from StarTypes that are less involved, run a little cooler, and stand a little farther back from the action.

Examples of good advisers include many of the GREEN BORDER card types, with the label “The Lover” as a relationship type. When checking for relationships, look for those, but there are others. Look for the Grand Trine pattern, which is the large green triangle.

As for the blue-bordered cards, keep in mind that they have the qualities of both the red-bordered and the green-bordered cards within their makeup. When relating to them, this StarType will want to invoke the care-giving and advice giving aspect of them and bring out the lover in these blue-bordered StarTypes, with this StarType being the loved one that they care for.

Event Interpretation

This is a very physical time, where you may learn more by going on your hunches and feelings, rather than just thinking things through – using your intellect. Feel it out, be in touch, go hands-on, rather than standing back and coolly observing. And this is a gregarious time, rubbing shoulders, getting close, right in there – glad handing. This is people time, perhaps good for a get together, for parties, convocations – whatever is immediate and sensual. Warmth, togetherness, charisma – all make sense now. Not the clearest time or one for making detailed plans. This is a time to let go and just be. Very practical.